line artIf you are planning a wedding, chances are you are spending a lot of time thinking about which of your friends will be bridesmaids at the ceremony. Your fiancé may also be stressing about finding the right groomsmen for the special day.

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Many brides spend an inordinate amount of time worrying about having an even number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. If you have chosen four of your best girlfriends as bridesmaids, your fiancé may feel pressured to come up with the same number of groomsmen.

The good news is that the rules of modern wedding etiquette mean that it is no longer necessary for brides and grooms to have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. So if you have three great friends picked out as bridesmaids and he has four groomsmen you do not have to worry about it. The most important thing is to choose your closest friends and loved ones for this important honor.

The Westchester Wedding Planner_1635Photo by Marcella Treybig Photography

Your wedding is the most important day of your life, and it is important to tailor those time-honored traditions and points of etiquette to your own needs. Many things have changed since those rules were written, and wedding etiquette continues to be redefined as each new generation falls in love and plans the perfect wedding celebration.

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